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		<title>By: Kim Falconer</title>
		<link>http://goodvibeblog.com/2008/08/drawing-the-line-on-love/comment-page-3/#comment-9765</link>
		<dc:creator>Kim Falconer</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 20 Dec 2009 08:42:44 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>And this is why Sophia means &lt;i&gt;Wisdom&lt;/i&gt;!

Thank you!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>And this is why Sophia means <i>Wisdom</i>!</p>
<p>Thank you!</p>
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		<title>By: sophia</title>
		<link>http://goodvibeblog.com/2008/08/drawing-the-line-on-love/comment-page-3/#comment-9764</link>
		<dc:creator>sophia</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 20 Dec 2009 08:07:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Jeanette I love this article. Sychronicity. I was discussing this topic with a friend earlier today. 

I agree with you. I use to have thoughts of devastation regarding that matter due to a past experience and not knowing the difference btwn lust and love; what it really means to love. 

I learned that Love is allowing others to be who they are because you love them enough to let go if it makes them happy. You want only the best for them and that their happiness is my happiness. I learned not to rely on others for my happiness and that it comes from within, not other people or my environment. 

I have the power to feel however I choose! 

Thought I&#039;d share that. Thank you for your insightful articles. 

Bless the universe for all the abundance in this world and the wonderful contrast of people,nature and animals. 

Blessings to you and all the readers out there on this journey of LOA. 

Cheers!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Jeanette I love this article. Sychronicity. I was discussing this topic with a friend earlier today. </p>
<p>I agree with you. I use to have thoughts of devastation regarding that matter due to a past experience and not knowing the difference btwn lust and love; what it really means to love. </p>
<p>I learned that Love is allowing others to be who they are because you love them enough to let go if it makes them happy. You want only the best for them and that their happiness is my happiness. I learned not to rely on others for my happiness and that it comes from within, not other people or my environment. </p>
<p>I have the power to feel however I choose! </p>
<p>Thought I&#8217;d share that. Thank you for your insightful articles. </p>
<p>Bless the universe for all the abundance in this world and the wonderful contrast of people,nature and animals. </p>
<p>Blessings to you and all the readers out there on this journey of LOA. </p>
<p>Cheers!</p>
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		<title>By: Erik</title>
		<link>http://goodvibeblog.com/2008/08/drawing-the-line-on-love/comment-page-3/#comment-9256</link>
		<dc:creator>Erik</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 05 Nov 2009 14:35:13 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>omg, have to correct, the break-up was this year, this is how far this already feels ... ^^

And as for animals, in many ways we can see them as masters of unconditional love. An acquaintance of mine once said (I was shocked) that animals only cash in on our vibration, they are the only ones that can profit from this relationship. I never owned animals (sadly so) but since I started telepathic animal communication, I can honestly say that animals are soooo good at making us open our hearts. Maybe the intellect of our younger soul brothers and sisters is still growing but their love is without parallel!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>omg, have to correct, the break-up was this year, this is how far this already feels &#8230; ^^</p>
<p>And as for animals, in many ways we can see them as masters of unconditional love. An acquaintance of mine once said (I was shocked) that animals only cash in on our vibration, they are the only ones that can profit from this relationship. I never owned animals (sadly so) but since I started telepathic animal communication, I can honestly say that animals are soooo good at making us open our hearts. Maybe the intellect of our younger soul brothers and sisters is still growing but their love is without parallel!</p>
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		<title>By: Erik</title>
		<link>http://goodvibeblog.com/2008/08/drawing-the-line-on-love/comment-page-3/#comment-9255</link>
		<dc:creator>Erik</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 05 Nov 2009 14:27:38 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Wow, simply the title &quot;draw the line on love&quot; sparked my interest - with the question being &quot;where will you draw the line&quot; as the good vibe coach since I value your opinion very highly. 
Even if it is an old post, it is still timeless.

Unconditional love is one of the &quot;hottest&quot; topics as one can see by the number of comments ;).

I had an open relationship years ago (was the longest I had by the way, funny as it may sound) and I felt more free than in any &quot;closed&quot; relationship before or after that. After the break-up last year with my gf, I finally resolved to go back to this way of living relationships because it is closer to where and how my heart is.

There is still a difference between fully-fledged polyamory and being able to let go of your loved one if you feel he or she is happy somewhere else but the principle of love and non-attachment is very similar.

This &quot;trading love&quot; hit home quite strongly, that is what I felt in closed relationships so far - it goes like or rather feels like &quot;if you promise to never never ever leave me, I will promise that I will cling to you till the end&quot;. Doh, anyone feeling a clenched heart and fear here also?

So yay to unconditional love and love cat-alysts (Peregrine, love that one!! ;) There is a reason why cats are considered magical animals)!!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Wow, simply the title &#8220;draw the line on love&#8221; sparked my interest &#8211; with the question being &#8220;where will you draw the line&#8221; as the good vibe coach since I value your opinion very highly.<br />
Even if it is an old post, it is still timeless.</p>
<p>Unconditional love is one of the &#8220;hottest&#8221; topics as one can see by the number of comments <img src='http://goodvibeblog.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';)' class='wp-smiley' /> .</p>
<p>I had an open relationship years ago (was the longest I had by the way, funny as it may sound) and I felt more free than in any &#8220;closed&#8221; relationship before or after that. After the break-up last year with my gf, I finally resolved to go back to this way of living relationships because it is closer to where and how my heart is.</p>
<p>There is still a difference between fully-fledged polyamory and being able to let go of your loved one if you feel he or she is happy somewhere else but the principle of love and non-attachment is very similar.</p>
<p>This &#8220;trading love&#8221; hit home quite strongly, that is what I felt in closed relationships so far &#8211; it goes like or rather feels like &#8220;if you promise to never never ever leave me, I will promise that I will cling to you till the end&#8221;. Doh, anyone feeling a clenched heart and fear here also?</p>
<p>So yay to unconditional love and love cat-alysts (Peregrine, love that one!! <img src='http://goodvibeblog.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';)' class='wp-smiley' />  There is a reason why cats are considered magical animals)!!</p>
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		<title>By: James Oh</title>
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		<dc:creator>James Oh</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 28 Sep 2009 06:02:41 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I am no relationship expert either, but I just want to give my two cents thought here. Distinction between love and grace need to be drawn. What you advocate above in your article appears to me more than love. It is more inclined towards self interest and is out from our flesh. It is very naturally not to loose control, possession if you love that particular item, be it a human being or pet, or thing. 

Whereas the latter is more inclined to unconditional love, i.e. you do not attach any string to it, and you need divine power do it. 

From the way I understand you are a very matured person and His wisdom that can make you think and act in this manner. That is out of ordinary act and contradict to our carnal thought.

Well done and grace to you always.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I am no relationship expert either, but I just want to give my two cents thought here. Distinction between love and grace need to be drawn. What you advocate above in your article appears to me more than love. It is more inclined towards self interest and is out from our flesh. It is very naturally not to loose control, possession if you love that particular item, be it a human being or pet, or thing. </p>
<p>Whereas the latter is more inclined to unconditional love, i.e. you do not attach any string to it, and you need divine power do it. </p>
<p>From the way I understand you are a very matured person and His wisdom that can make you think and act in this manner. That is out of ordinary act and contradict to our carnal thought.</p>
<p>Well done and grace to you always.</p>
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		<title>By: Demitrius</title>
		<link>http://goodvibeblog.com/2008/08/drawing-the-line-on-love/comment-page-3/#comment-3983</link>
		<dc:creator>Demitrius</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 14 Jan 2009 07:14:33 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>badly need your help. If you don&#039;t know where you are going, you will probably end up somewhere else.
I am from France and now teach English, give true I wrote the following sentence: &quot;An anonymous sum; enabled for employer search, will be found through a sum; search by.&quot;

Thank ;) Demitrius.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>badly need your help. If you don&#8217;t know where you are going, you will probably end up somewhere else.<br />
I am from France and now teach English, give true I wrote the following sentence: &#8220;An anonymous sum; enabled for employer search, will be found through a sum; search by.&#8221;</p>
<p>Thank <img src='http://goodvibeblog.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';)' class='wp-smiley' />  Demitrius.</p>
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		<title>By: Good Vibe Coach</title>
		<link>http://goodvibeblog.com/2008/08/drawing-the-line-on-love/comment-page-3/#comment-3221</link>
		<dc:creator>Good Vibe Coach</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 09 Nov 2008 20:26:28 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>For anyone who&#039;s wondering what Love Tabby&#039;s up to, I got an update from Bridget at www.petsaretalking.com saying that Love tabby was picked up and taken home by a woman not far from my house, and that he lives with another black cat, and that he&#039;d come back if she ever let him out (because he likes the food at my place better).  ha

Thanks, Bridget!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>For anyone who&#8217;s wondering what Love Tabby&#8217;s up to, I got an update from Bridget at <a href="http://www.petsaretalking.com" rel="nofollow">http://www.petsaretalking.com</a> saying that Love tabby was picked up and taken home by a woman not far from my house, and that he lives with another black cat, and that he&#8217;d come back if she ever let him out (because he likes the food at my place better).  ha</p>
<p>Thanks, Bridget!</p>
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		<title>By: Anonymous</title>
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		<dc:creator>Anonymous</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 16 Sep 2008 22:18:22 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>WOW - looks like your &quot;drawing the line on love&quot; sparked quite the invigorated discussion...

Bless you for speaking your mind.

It&#039;s definitely given me food for thought... I read somewhere that love is a state of being - something we ARE rather than something we DO...

I would suggest that often times we use love as a &quot;validation&quot; of our self-worth, which is why I think some folks have such a STRONG reaction to the idea of it being taken away or going to someone else...  because the feel it speaks to their own inherent self-worth/lovableness or lack there of.

there is always enough, and so I believe it&#039;s a step in faith to trust if someone&#039;s love goes elsewhere, then there is other, better love meant to come into one&#039;s life.  although, i find this is much easier said than done...  there&#039;s a big difference allowing someone to love you rather than demanding it, and i think sometimes this is where people skip the track (including myself on previous occasion)...

it&#039;s funny, but of all people, Gene Simmons (yes, Gene Simmons of KISS) comes to mind... He&#039;s is firmly resolute in opposition to the idea of marriage, saying that he wants to know that they both are getting up everyday and choosing to be together rather than just assuming or expecting the other person will be there, and quite honestly, I feel your blog along with Gene&#039;s attitude are refreshing ways of defining love.

Love is patient.  Love is kind.  Love is not boastful (etc., etc., etc.) is so often quoted from the Bible, yet how often do people really live that in their lives?

Thank You for giving me food for thought!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>WOW &#8211; looks like your &#8220;drawing the line on love&#8221; sparked quite the invigorated discussion&#8230;</p>
<p>Bless you for speaking your mind.</p>
<p>It&#8217;s definitely given me food for thought&#8230; I read somewhere that love is a state of being &#8211; something we ARE rather than something we DO&#8230;</p>
<p>I would suggest that often times we use love as a &#8220;validation&#8221; of our self-worth, which is why I think some folks have such a STRONG reaction to the idea of it being taken away or going to someone else&#8230;  because the feel it speaks to their own inherent self-worth/lovableness or lack there of.</p>
<p>there is always enough, and so I believe it&#8217;s a step in faith to trust if someone&#8217;s love goes elsewhere, then there is other, better love meant to come into one&#8217;s life.  although, i find this is much easier said than done&#8230;  there&#8217;s a big difference allowing someone to love you rather than demanding it, and i think sometimes this is where people skip the track (including myself on previous occasion)&#8230;</p>
<p>it&#8217;s funny, but of all people, Gene Simmons (yes, Gene Simmons of KISS) comes to mind&#8230; He&#8217;s is firmly resolute in opposition to the idea of marriage, saying that he wants to know that they both are getting up everyday and choosing to be together rather than just assuming or expecting the other person will be there, and quite honestly, I feel your blog along with Gene&#8217;s attitude are refreshing ways of defining love.</p>
<p>Love is patient.  Love is kind.  Love is not boastful (etc., etc., etc.) is so often quoted from the Bible, yet how often do people really live that in their lives?</p>
<p>Thank You for giving me food for thought!</p>
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		<title>By: Good Vibe Coach</title>
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		<dc:creator>Good Vibe Coach</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 31 Aug 2008 14:56:33 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Ooh, Robert ... pop on to the next post (Hidden Payoffs &amp; New Stories) and maybe we can help with this story!  This one you&#039;re telling weighs even on ME, and I&#039;m all doing is reading it!  lol

Would it feel better to tell this story differently?

Thanks for posting and sharing the song with us - I&#039;m off to go listen to it next ...</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Ooh, Robert &#8230; pop on to the next post (Hidden Payoffs &#038; New Stories) and maybe we can help with this story!  This one you&#8217;re telling weighs even on ME, and I&#8217;m all doing is reading it!  lol</p>
<p>Would it feel better to tell this story differently?</p>
<p>Thanks for posting and sharing the song with us &#8211; I&#8217;m off to go listen to it next &#8230;</p>
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		<title>By: Robert Higginson</title>
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		<dc:creator>Robert Higginson</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 30 Aug 2008 19:02:04 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>One of the hardest things I have ever done is say good bye to some one I love because that is what is best for them. Listen carefully to the words of this song:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3QUh6CLBZN8</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>One of the hardest things I have ever done is say good bye to some one I love because that is what is best for them. Listen carefully to the words of this song:<br />
<a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3QUh6CLBZN8" rel="nofollow">http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3QUh6CLBZN8</a></p>
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