How to Manifest More Sex (or Anything Else You Want)
Some of you are wondering how to manifest more (or better) sex. So let’s get down to business …
(These instructions also apply for how to get more of whatever you want, be it money, success, a house, better body, etc. But this is written specifically for the person who wants more sex.)
Here we go:
First of all, it helps to stop noticing the sex you’re not getting.
Stop giving attention to how you wish you had more.
Stop complaining about how little you’re getting and telling the story about how bad your sex life is.
In fact, it’s really helpful to stop believing you’re not getting as much sex as you want.
Yes, I know you’re justified in thinking and saying and believing what you’ve been thinking, telling and believing. But that is NOT helping you get more sex.
It’s actually doing the exact opposite.
As you speak (and think) it, so shall it be.
So you’ve got to start appreciating your sex life.
However you can accomplish that.
You’ve got to love the sex you are having. You’ve got to tell the story about how great your sex life is. (Especially to your partner!) You want to be the person who is enjoying all the fabulous sex they want.
Whether you’re remembering or imagining or however you can get to thoughts of appreciation about lots of great sex, that’s what you want to get in mind.
Would you talk different? Smile more? How would you behave differently?
However you would be when you’re sexually satisfied, start being that way now.
Whether that’s relaxed, happy, satisfied, cooperative – whatever it would be for you – start feeling that way and being that person now.
If you have a partner, you’ll become more attractive to him/her. If you don’t yet have a partner, you’ll still be more attractive to him/her – whoever it turns out to be.
And I’m not talking physically attractive – I mean energetically attractive.
Since like attracts like, as you become the person who has a great sex life (even before you have one), you will attract a great sex life.
One of the stories I didn’t tell in my Adventures in Manifesting ebook – even though it’s chock full of real world examples from my love life – was how my boyfriend noticed my manifesting success in getting foster dogs adopted, to which he responded by promptly using this magical new power to manifest more sex! (What a quick study he was.)
So having been on the other side of this manifestation, I know how easy and effective it is to work on someone.
The trick (for the one doing the manifesting) is to not get caught up in the “reality” of what is.
Find some way to get your attention on what you want, rather than what is.
- For Pam (not her real name), that means she’s got to stop telling co-workers and friends about her husband’s challenges in the bedroom. She’s got to appreciate what is working, even if it’s just that he’s great aabout public displays of affection – which she loves.
- For Scott (not his real name), that means he’s got to stop thinking of his wife as a woman who has no interest in sex. Instead, he’ll want to see her differently – maybe as a woman who is waking up to new heights of sexual desire – with him in particular (that could be an important element to include). Or whatever story would help make it believable that things are changing romantically. He’ll also want to start treating her the way he would treat a woman who he is enjoying lots of highly satisfying sexual activity with.
- For Sue and Matt (not their real names), who don’t have any partners in sight and are tired of being celibate, they should know they cannot attract a great love life while upset about not having one. It just doesn’t work that way.
You’ve got to find a way to feel better now, whether that’s by entertaining rich fantasies, purposefully appreciating the sex you are having, or by getting your mind on something else that is satisfying. Whatever inspires you to shift the vibe – that’s what you want to engage.
Change the way you feel now, without expecting your new love life to make you feel better.
And to anyone who feels stymied in getting what they want, it helps tremendously to take the pressure off this thing you want for making you happy. When you make it out to be a big deal, especially a big deal that you’re not experiencing, it closes the door on it.
You want to find ways to feel better now, even before it gets here – even if it NEVER gets here – in order to allow it in.
I know it’s a funky way to get what you want, but it works.
It’s also worth mentioning, even though I know many of you likely won’t believe me, that it isn’t really more sex you want. What you really want is how you think having that amazing sex life is going to make you feel.
If anyone cares to share thoughts on the topic, I know it’d be a huge benefit to many who are wondering about all this!