Manifesting a Valentine
Some say it’s to love yourself first.
Others will say it’s best done by loving others (because you get what you put out there).
Some say it’s to forgive your past. (Grudges, resentments, etc. prevent good love from finding you.)
Some tell you to act as if you’ve already got it.
In fact, I’ve said all of those things myself.
But the message I got today on Harmony Harrison’s Self Love shamanic journey call for Good Vibe U was this:
let it be okay that you don’t have it right now.
Those are wise words from spirit guides. Because we know how this works:
If there’s any part of you that doesn’t like how something is – first of all, know that’s natural. It’s part of being human – we have new desires and preferences all the time. They’re not to be wished away.
But if we stay dialed in on what’s wrong or what we wish was different, the difference can’t come in.
So it’s to make peace with what is.
I was asking guides how to be rid of this drama I’m peripherally involved in with people who are important to me. I was asking to feel peace, harmony and appreciation.
The answer I got was to not wish this drama away. Which makes perfect sense, because I know that in wishing it away, I’m resisting it.
Rather, our best move is to allow it. To make peace with it. That in itself transforms the vibration.
So I’m no longer needing the drama to go away before I feel better. I feel better now, and then the drama’s not so bad and pretty soon I don’t even notice drama.
It’s the same with everything we want.
Getting what we want starts with not resisting where we are.
So to get the love life you want, whether it’s attracting someone new or transforming an existing relationship, it starts with getting okay with how things are now.
(This is where I share Lisa Hayes’ disclaimer about denial.)
If you’re wishing for a better Valentine than you have right now, take a deep breath, know it’s on its way, and let it go for now. Let it be okay today that you are where you are.
With that you just took the first most important step in manifesting dream come true love.