Deliberate creators know they can create whatever they can align with (i.e. envision and believe in). Sometimes that inspires us to consider wild “leaps of faith,” trusting that the net will appear when we manage our energy and truly believe in a happy ending. It might look like quitting a job before we have another...
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Have you seen my foster puppies?  They are absolutely darling. I welcomed them into my home when I was feeling a bit out of sorts.  Life was zigging while I was zagging, and I felt a bit drained of joy. I knew the puppies would put me squarely in the vortex again. Except they...
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The other day I suggested to someone that the best way to create what you want is to become the person who already has it. If you want professional success, be the person who is successful.  Don’t wait for success to come before you “be” that person now. If you want relationship harmony, become...
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A good rule of thumb for life in the vortex: no big decisions when you’re not in it. Having a bad day is no time to decide about  leaving a relationship.  Or a job.  Or about a surgery.  Or a cross country move.  Or a big expenditure. Having a bad day is a time...
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Because I quote Abraham so much in this blog, in weekly ezine articles and at Good Vibe University, it seems wise to introduce those who aren’t already familiar with this invaluable law of attraction resource. Abraham is a non-physical entity channeled by Esther Hicks.  Abraham describes themselves (they use the plural, not the singular) as “a group...
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A good headset.  It’s a coach’s best friend. Sound quality, comfort, good buttons for mute and volume adjustment – if you spend your day on the phone like I do, you know how important it is to love your headset. Which is why when my very first and incredibly trusty Plantonics headset fell victim...
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Have you ever tried manifesting on deadline? Your little sister’s wedding is three months away, and you absolutely must drop 10 pounds by then to rock that bridesmaid’s dress. Your new job starts in six weeks in another state – and you need to sell the house before you take on another new mortgage....
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If you read comments from the prior post, you’ve already seen Frank Butterfield‘s version of the Emotional Guidance Scale. It’s “salty,” as he says.  And not for everyone. But if you can appreciate a few swear words, and are familiar with Abraham’s Vibrational Scale, you’re going to love Frank’s version. First (and just to...
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“It’s a fact.” That’s what my sweetie said when I begged him to stop giving a replay of all the putts he missed in yesterday’s golf tournament. He reported it was one of his most frustrating games ever.  He was driving brilliantly – straight and long and impressive – but his short game was...
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“In life when one door closes another always opens, but the hallways are a bitch.” ~ Ronnie Kaye I laughed at that quote when I read it on Karen Nauman’s facebook page this morning. And realized it’s the exact opposite of the law of attraction tip that lit me up yesterday: In a recent...
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Lately I’ve been playing with not giving a rip what others think.  It’s a good skill for deliberate creation. Because when we care more what others think than what our Inner Guidance thinks, the vibe gets kinky.  And that kinky vibe slows the flow of good stuff from our vortex. I’ve personally found the...
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How hard is doing nothing? Harder than doing something, it turns out. At least for me. When coach Lisa Hayes prescribed three days of doing nothing other than just being with myself, I thought that wouldn’t be too far off from how I already did life. Cinchy. Until I had to say goodbye to...
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Of all the challenges deliberate creators may face, a diagnosis of cancer can strongly test our ability to stay happy and aligned (aka “in the vortex”).  Even if we’re just supporting friends or family with cancer, our alignment can be tough to find. Which is why I asked the brilliant LOA Coach Zoe Routh for her take on this...
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On her monthly Good Vibe U call, faculty member Abigail Steidley introduced us to slacker manifesting, which we loved so much we begged for a guest post.  Here’s Abigail: I have been a life-long tryer. Whenever I wanted something, I would really go for it, chase after it, make it happen, and generally put forth...
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I requested this guest post from Law of Attraction Coach Flavia Daay after I heard Flavia talk about the Jaycee Dugard story in a very positive light.  Flavia’s post makes it clear she was simply following Jaycee’s lead in finding the best from a high-contrast experience: Most stories of survival are stories in which...
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