We regularly hear how transformative it is to focus on the best in another. To notice what we appreciate most, to get deliberate in seeing nice qualities – that’s reportedly extremely effective in changing the nature of an otherwise contentious relationship. I believe it’s true, but wanted to get some recent research on the...
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A long time friend wrote today asking me to envision seeing her on the winning side of an ugly custody battle. It’s the sort of request that makes me take a deep breath. Because while I feel deeply for her, and can tell how badly she wants this, I also know that approach doesn’t always...
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Today’s guest post is by the renowned Kim Falconer, who shares her thoughts about the manifesting habit of making lists to attract love: Recently I listened to a GVU call by relationship coach Lisa Hayes. It was part of her series on Dating in the Vortex and focused on Lisa’s “two list” approach to attracting...
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I’m not a golf nut, but my boyfriend is – which is why I’m tuned into the British Open this weekend. Something my sweetie said about Phil Mickelson’s “amnesia” approach to winning a tournament he’s competed in 18 times caught my deliberate creator attention. Apparently Phil is playing this major tournament with a new...
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Master Coach Sue Rasmussen shares helpful suggestions with deliberate creators who are looking for an easy way to manifest change.  Here’s Sue: When your home has areas that aren’t working (everyone has them…they’re your clutter zones or ‘touchy areas’ or the spaces that cause you the most stress or discomfort or embarrassment), I guarantee...
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The last two weeks I’ve had so much fun with a new little manifesting routine that it’s ridiculous. It makes me giggle out loud even thinking about it.  But it’s probably a misguided intention, truth be told. Here’s why: I’ve been putting a spell on my belly.  It goes like this: “You are the...
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This question comes from a sweet soul who’s ready for love and wondering if the advice she’s getting about what it takes to make it happen is accurate. Here’s her situation and question: I’d like the fun, full of laughter, good times, gorgeous smooching, juicy chemistry, banter, relaxed & exciting 3 month doesn’t end horribly...
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Today’s guest post comes all the way from Mexico compliments of Juan, who did an excellent job of answering a big question many thoughtful creators run across.  Here’s his question as well as his brilliantly inspired answer: Is it really necessary to deny What IS? Have you ever had special trouble with some bit of...
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Deliberate creators know that life unfolds according to what we believe. So it becomes pretty helpful to be flexible in adopting beliefs that support what we want to create. How do you change what you believe? If you ask around, you’ll hear things like: first you need to identify your limiting beliefs your core...
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That’s what someone asked me today.  How to use law of attraction to get rid of cellulite. Forget world peace and planetary health, let’s use our creative power where it really counts: on those thighs! I get a lot of emailed questions, but I liked this one in particular. Partly because I’ve been running into...
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In a recent newsletter I wrote that “waiting for your dream to come true is exactly what’s holding it up.” My argument was that when we visualize a better future, we sometimes don’t realize that in that process we’re pushing against “what is.”  Universe hears that signal as “this sucks, but it’ll be better...
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My friend and colleague Michele Woodward asked this question on facebook after reading a study that said people who engage in “positive fantasies” are less likely to achieve them. This same article quoted another study that said the reason why is because “Imagining these successful outcomes saps our energy from doing the hard work...
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Whether or not Lady Gaga knows about the law of attraction, it’s clear she has a good handle on the process of deliberate creation. In a 60 Minutes interview with Lady Gaga Anderson Cooper says part of the appeal of Lady Gaga’s work is not just her music, but also her uplifting mantras of self...
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Some people said Maveriks guard Jason Terry was crazy to have the NBA championship tropy tattooed on his bicep back in October. But when his team won their first NBA title ever last night, it didn’t seem so crazy. Eric Freeman wrote: “What seemed silly a few months ago now seems like a stroke a...
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I called a friend for green thumb advice on what to do different with a couple of indoor plants that weren’t thriving. He suggested something I wouldn’t have come up with myself: neglect. Robert said plants sometimes do better when you don’t give them too much attention, since we plant lovers can be prone to overwatering,...
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