When You Don’t Know What To Do
- wondering which project takes priority
- vacillating about whether to see the doctor or not
- considering canceling the vacation or making the final payment
- second guessing about giving him another chance or cutting losses now
We can drive ourselves nuts trying to figure out solutions to our quandaries.
That’s a good time to use this sure fire formula for confused situations, big or small.
Try this next time you don’t know what to do:
1. Remember the end result you want
What are you shooting for? Tune into what your happy ending looks like. (Satisfied clients; healthy body; relaxed & rejuvenated spirit; happily ever after romance?)
Focusing on what you want makes it much more likely your next actions will actually take you there. This is a good time to let go of “hows” and open up to new ideas.
2. Give inspiration (spirit within) a chance to speak
Don’t try to figure it out from your limited physical mind – let spirit/source help out by allowing higher guidance to chime in. Making a little space in our crowded, noisy minds allows miraculous insights or sometimes even immediate resolution to the challenges we face.
So that’s a two step process for it to work best: refocus then relax.
The reason this works so well is because when we make a decision out of uncertainty, limitation or frustration, that vibration dictates the results we get. (Which won’t be fab.)
Taking a minute (or more) to shake that off and remember what we want (and to partner with guidance to get there) does a world of good.
Bottom line: the vibration of the answer is different than the vibration of the question – so get out of question mode before you take action or even expect good answers.
Focus is everything, and our actions aren’t as important as the energy behind them!