Activate: Smooth Divorce
As part of our vibration activation series, this post is designed to help manifest a smooth divorce.
Use it when you want to align yourself to a healthy, peaceful exit from a marriage contract or long term relationship.
We know this works because whenever we find a way to feel what we want like it’s already here, it cues Universe to make it happen.
One read through should be good for a 17 second vibe activation, and that’s all it takes to make a shift. All you have to do after that is honor inspiration (that is, do what feels good).
If you’ve got an easy divorce story, please share with us in the comments.
Let’s smooth out this divorce:
While others might see divorce as failure, I know better. I know that this is the right thing for us right now. Because we’re here. And whatever’s happening is happening for the best, I know that much.
I also know that there were plenty of good things about the time we spent together, and I’ll continue to celebrate those things, even though our paths are parting.
In fact, it might even be easier to appreciate my partner when we’re on the other side of this breakup. Stranger things have happened! And I’d love for us to have healthy, happy feelings for each even though we’re no longer choosing to build our lives together.
I also know that when I lead this party with positive, appreciative thoughts, then it’s guaranteed that good things unfold for me. My partner doesn’t even have to join me in those thoughts – they get to have their own experience, after all. But I’m strong enough to lead the way solo with love and light if I need to.
Because I’m in charge of how I feel. I’m not subject to circumstances or others’ vibrations – I choose how I want to feel.
And right now I choose peace, I choose acceptance, and I choose happiness.
It’s not hard to imagine that good things are ahead for us all … Universe has such a delightful way of letting things get better and better.
And while there might be a time that I find myself wishing revengeful sorts of things on my ex, I accept that about where I am right now, and I know it’ll pass sooner or later.
For the rough parts that we do traverse, I’ll just outsource things to my angels. I’ll ask my angels to talk to his angels, and broker a good breakup for us. It’s my intention in the meantime to maintain my equanimity and feelings of love for the parts of our relationship that did work.
After all, I know we both want the same things – we both just want to be happy. And my happiness isn’t conditional on what my partner does or doesn’t do, or on what they want or don’t want. It’s on me. And I can trust my inner guidance to consistently point me in the direction of what feels better.
That’s a path I know how to follow: “what feels better.” That path can only lead to good places.
I might not know how things are going to work out, but I trust that they will. Even when things might seem to not be going my way, I know that’s just an illusion. Because everything is always working out for me. All I have to do is follow what feels better, whatever that is. And I expect that inner instruction will evolve the better I get at honoring it.
I trust the timing of how things unfold, too, and am grateful for the support I can feel all around in so many different ways as this life transition evolves.
God bless every one of us involved in this divorce – me, my partner, our family, our attorneys, our friends and our home. I’m open to the blessings this development has available, and I intend that all of us become happier, healthier and more aligned as a result of what’s unfolding here now.
Life is good – even (maybe especially) when it brings divorce.