Give Yourself An Easy Win
One of the first things I do as a law of attraction coach to help new clients manifest an elusive desire is listen for something that seemingly has nothing to do with why they hired me.
Yet it has everything to do with getting what they want.
That’s because creating what we want is all about alignment.
It’s about feeling better now, before the next cool thing happens.
And feeling better now isn’t just about imagining it or scripting it into reality. It’s not just vision boards, affirmations and inspired action.
It involves all sorts of ways to feel better before our desire comes true.
While there are other ways to feel better before we get what we want, the one I like to start new clients off with is plugging the vibrational holes.
I’m talking about eliminating energy drains, aka tolerations. The things that keep us anchored in the lower end of the vibrational scale.
When we can spot something they’ve been putting up with that bothers them – and eliminate it – that’s often all Universe needed to get that cool new thing through their door.
You’d be amazed how many times the weight drops, the guy calls, the job is offered, and the money flows when we release that thing we didn’t know was keeping us out of vibrational range of what we want.
That’s why it can seem like magic to eliminate a toleration.
I know it from personal experience:
- the coaching practice didn’t take off until I quit the job I hated
- my business didn’t evolve until I cut ties with an energy-draining ex
- my health didn’t improve until I stopped fretting about my health
And I’ve seen it happen with plenty of others … where we addressed the family feud, or remedied the acne, or improved the living situation, and that’s what released the logjam that held the manifested desire at bay.
So if there’s something you’d like to get good traction in creating, look for an energy drainer (that might even seem completely unrelated to your desire), find a way to eliminate that toleration and watch what happens next.
It often doesn’t even require alignment exercises beyond dropping the drainers in order to get what you want.
It’s happened so many times that it’s now the first thing I look for with new clients – just plug the vibrational holes and magic happens!
Eliminating tolerations can be easier said than done, since sometimes we’ve gotten so used to those drainers that we don’t even question them any more. Or even when we know what they are, we sometimes feel helpless to change it. (Otherwise we would have already!)
Which is why getting a second set of expert eyes on your situation can help kickstart powerful change.
But it’s a tip worth considering if you’re looking to infuse extra magic in your manifesting practice …
Just look for something you haven’t been loving and find a way to shift it.
Here ‘s a quick tutorial on eliminating tolerations.
And here’s to finding even more delightful ways to manage our vibration and allow our biggest dreams come true!