Imagine There’s a Super Hot Guy …

Imagine with me for a moment that I’ve got a new love interest.

This guy’s hot.

I’m talking super hot.

He’s everything I ever dreamed of.

And I want him in my world. I think we’d be fabulous together!

I mean, this is my guy! Or at least, I want him to be.

Okay, are you with me so far?


Now imagine that these are the sorts of things I say to him:

  • You probably aren’t interested in someone like me. You probably prefer a girl who has her act together. Someone who is more worthy of your attention.
  • I really don’t know how to handle you. You’re the kind of guy I’ve never been able to make it work with, and frankly I’m worn out from trying.
  • I need you to prove your love, and then I’ll love you back. But you better show it first, because I’m not going to trust until you do.

And imagine this is how I treat him:

  • Carelessly. Not paying much attention. Can’t be bothered with the likes of him.
  • Or with trepidation. Every time I interact with him I’m a nervous wreck, always afraid he’s going to let me down. Or I’m going to mess it up.
  • Or with blame. He’s the reason my life is a mess. If only he’d do things differently, then I would be happy.

And imagine this is what I feel about him:

  • I’m afraid of him.
  • Or I blame him and his kind for letting me down so many times in the past.
  • Or I have to have him. My life will not be complete without him and I will do whatever it takes (whatever it takes, I tell you!) to drag him home with me.

This is probably not an auspicious start to a healthy, loving relationship, right?

No. That’s how to manifest a dysfunctional relationship. Or how to ensure I’m rolling solo.

Either way, that’s not how happily ever after with my true love unfolds.

Easy to see when we look at it this way.

So, here’s the thing. And maybe you already know where I’m going with this …

But many of us are doing exactly this while trying to draw money into our own lives.

We’re flowing repellent energy and wondering why money isn’t running into our arms to live happily ever after.

Because many of us are thinking unworthy thoughts, feeling anxiety, or treating money like we expect it to disappear altogether at any moment.

Is that an eye opener about the relationship you’ve created with your own money?

“But,” you might say, “Money isn’t a person! It’s just energy. It’s not the same thing as a relationship.”

Well, yes, it is just energy. And money is responding to your energy, the same way everything else in the world does.

So if you’re interested in upgrading your love affair with money, you might take a little inventory about how you think, treat, and feel about it.

If money was a person, how would you describe your relationship?

Would a person respond positively to what you’re flowing? Or would they be repelled by it?

It doesn’t take much to turn things around once we see how we’ve sabotaged our own financial desires.

When we’re nurturing a thriving relationship with a loved one in real life we probably do these sorts of things:

  • We think lovely thoughts about them
  • We rave about them to our friends
  • We spend quality time with them
  • We appreciate all the delights they bring to our world
  • We care about and treasure them
  • We expect good things for and from them
  • We post happy pictures together on facebook

Okay, that last one made me laugh. (I would delight in seeing your happy money pics.)

But you can feel the vibrational difference, right? Or if you’re already rocking it with money, you probably don’t have a big difference here.

If you do (notice a difference), just learn to treat, think and feel about money in a way that welcomes it.

And it won’t be long before your bank account is sending you love notes back.

  • August 27, 2016
  • Shan says:

    Wonderful, Jeannette – LOVE it!! What a brilliant analogy, and beautifully written, as Ming says. I’m going to play too! ‘Rave about it to your friends’–hmm, that’s a challenging one; will also play with!Thank you!
    Wendy – probably, but do you care?!!

  • Elle says:

    I was in such a relationship and the hottie drove me away with his insecurities. It was sad.
    Ha, love notes instead of bank notes. Cool!
    Money is the same color as nature, there is love for both.

  • Dana says:

    This made me think about how often I have no, or very little cash on me. If money was really my BFF (as my man is), I’d want to take it everywhere with me. I’m getting money from the ATM today…we must form a closer bond! 😉

  • Karen L Kelly says:

    Until I realized it was about money, I wasn’t going to read it. Relationships have never worked out for me, for many of the above reasons. Yup, I do a whole lot better with money than men. But thanks for the awesome analogy. I have started recently to refresh my whole relationship with money. We once had such a good thing going, and we’re starting to get back to that again. Looking at beautiful things we can do together. Taking care of each other. Thanks, Jeannette.

    • Lau says:

      Im also better with money than hot guys. I was so excited reading this post until I realized I only half manifested an article of a hot guy. I was initially disappointed then I realized its better than nothing. I got to really visualize a hot guy for a moment. Yay to that. Perhaps by being grateful we manifest a full article starting exactly the same way.

  • Vanesseva says:

    I used to write pretty great love letters…now will do them for my new hot relationship…Mon Ey. can’t wait to see what develops! Thanks Jeannette!

  • Sharne Warren says:

    Love love love this Jeannette!! Just lying in the sun savouring the delicious cup of tea my gorgeous money relationship bought me this morning!!! Going to bless, enjoy, appreciate, love everything my wonderful money relationship brings me. Thanks again for the amazingness of you!

  • april says:

    This is the best money analogy ever! Thanks, Jeannette

  • Nikky says:

    Awesome post Jeannette !
    Love the reminder. Yes money can hear my thoughts and feel my emotions about it.

  • Mary McEvilly says:

    I L.O.V.E. this concept. I REALLY felt the mojo when I started writing love letters to my money (Nona Jordan) I’m going to take that up again right NOW! Dear Money, I’m so sorry that I ignored you. That changes today….xoxox

  • Awesome!!! I made a whole bunch of videos back in 2008 on this topic. Here is one of them:

  • ada says:

    Lovely.Perfect timing as always.
    Thank you

  • Dawn says:

    Love this Jeannette!!! A huge eye opener! Thank you!!!

  • Anna BoBana says:

    I’m going to play. Just might get hot & sticky outside and stick money all over me.
    Can’t guarantee a pic though, what with visuals & all…
    Although the thought of me laughing as I walk into my Credit Union with a wad of cash in hand – now there’s something!

  • Lindsey says:

    WOW! Great analogy! And because I did manifest Mr. Wonderful (who is hot, intelligent, kind, really into me and our 5th anniversary is next week) this may be the game changer with $. I can’t thank you enough for this concept Jeanette. Many blessings to you.

  • Melissa H says:

    Money= Idris Elba
    Got it!

  • Michael says:

    Wow. Made a quick gender adjustment and then took a lot of those points to heart. Thanks, Jeannette… 🙂

    • Jeannette says:

      Apologies for not writing this gender neutral, Michael, but I wasn’t getting as much juice in it when I did it that way. lol
      Thanks for reading and for commenting, my friend! 🙂

      • Derek Pavlicek says:

        I’d way rather you write in whatever way that does give you lots of juice lol, this is a metaphorically brilliant article.. I’ve thought of money before as a person, but never really picked it up and continued in that direction.
        I usually don’t read emails unless they’re really drawing me in, the title of the one leading me here definitely did.

  • Moonsparkle says:

    Thanks for the post, Jeanette. 🙂 I think I do actually act (or feel) this way around men sometimes! Also good to apply it to money. I have more resistance around relationships than money but I don’t have a lot of money and would like to be more abundant, so it’s good to pay attention to how I feel about money as well.
    Lol, now I’m imagining happy money pics!

    • Jeannette says:

      Right, Moonsparkle?! It’s funny to think of those happy money pics, isn’t it?!
      I’m so tempted to take one myself. lol

    • Sauterelle says:

      Moonsparkle, I was thinking exactly that: hey, I need to apply this advice to my romantic life as well! I may not be saying those things, but sometimes I am thinking them. Applying the same lens to money is going to be a fascinating exercise, particularly while I am working on receiving in general.

  • Wendy says:

    Yeah, pretty easy visualizing a hot man and then treating my money. . . would it look weird if I start petting my money! 🙂 Great analogy Jeannette! Thanks!

    • Jeannette says:

      Wendy, I’m laughing out loud at that visual!
      That’s a photo I would love to see, too. 🙂

    • Anna BoBana says:

      Petting my money…I like it, Wendy!
      We have plastic bills in Canada now, so I could pet it even when I’m playing in the dirt outside – wash and dry and pretty as always…
      I’m totally doing this!

  • Jess says:

    I love this! I woke up this morning thinking about perusing the forum because I needed a money vibe shift. We are about to sell a house which will eliminate all our debt. I know that my vibe is off and will be back at this point again if I don’t change it. This is just what I needed!!! 😘😘

  • Tamara says:

    Goosebumps! In the best ways!

  • Ming says:

    Haha Jeannette, so beautifully written as if II had written it myself. Totally perfect. Yes, Money is energy and Money is my BFF. I even sing to Money almost every day in fact. Now taking a picture of me with my Money, probably isn’t happening. Though looking at my bank account feels oh so good. Money has my back, never judges me, always supports me, delights me and loves me. The feeling is totally mutual. Our relationship continues to grow too. We are growing closer haha! Well, I love your blog. This time I am writing as the Money Alchemist 🙂

  • Steffy says:

    BAM! Money, sorted. What a great analogy. Brilliant as always Jeannette.

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