Is It Working?
Because if you’re scripting or visualizing or “acting as if” in order to get what you want so you’ll be happier, you’ve missed the point of deliberate creation.
(And many of us do.)
Deliberate creation is about feeling now how you would feel then. It’s about managing your energetic frequency by feeling better now. Not waiting for the thing to manifest before you get happy.
So the measure of whether your manifesting process is effective is whether you feel better for engaging it.
That’s the measure that counts.
If it makes you feel better, it works.
Don’t wait for the weight to drop or the money to appear or the boyfriend to propose before you declare it a success.
It is, however, a sure thing that as you feel better now, more good stuff happens. That other stuff is a side benefit, though, not the main purpose.
If you need the stuff to happen before you declare your manifesting routine effective, you are doing life the way everyone else does. Depending on circumstances for how you feel.
That’s not deliberate creation.
(I’m reminding myself this as I play with a new process this month. I found myself thinking, “Sure, I feel great, but is it working?” D’oh!)