Law of Attraction and Aging
“You’re not getting any younger, you know.”
These words probably make the top ten list of “How to Spoil Sunday with Your Girlfriend.”
I said to Russ, “Look, these are words you should never say to ANY woman you want to sleep with, let alone the one who doesn’t believe in aging.”
“You don’t believe in aging?” He said it more than asked it. Like he was confirming just how crazy his girlfriend was.
“Well, I’m trying NOT to. That’s my point. Hearing it from you doesn’t help. I want to escape that old mentality. I want to grow younger and get healthier and better looking every day.”
“‘Old mentality,'” he repeats. “Honey, aging is a fact.” (As if I were an eight year old that he was breaking the news to about the Tooth Fairy.) “It’s what happens. You can’t stop it. You can’t stop time.”
Well, with any hope of a friendly romantic encounter shot to smithereens, I let him have it.
“All right, let’s go over this again.” And I ran him through the principles of deliberate creation a-frickin-gain. We get what we think about. There are no rules out there. There are no limitations. If we can imagine it, we can have it. There isn’t any reason we should be aging, other than that the whole of society has bought into it, and I’m opting out.
“You’re opting out of aging,” he says, not even trying to mask the laughter in his voice.
“Yeah, I am. And I guarantee I’m not doing it so I can hang out with some decrepit old guy, so I would rethink my position on this, if I were you.”
I tell him I’m not the only one thinking this. That others are on board with this same idea. LOTS of others. I don’t know how many, but I know I’m not alone. I’ve been trained by one of them. (Ron Zeller, who is a stand for ageless living. His wife, who is known as Ninja Grandma. Not to mention all the yogis who are known for good health in the upper echelons of birthdays.)
And while I’m telling him that, I’m thinking of the enormous vibrational escrow of all those people all those years who desperately wanted good health and great looks in their later years. Oh yeah, I’m tapping into THAT party!
So, Russ agrees not to argue with my beliefs, and swears I will never again hear him say, “You’re not getting any younger.”
As he’s making breakfast (making fun of my brown $4 cage-free eggs and rice milk), I find two emails in my in-box related to law of attraction and aging. Or anti-aging, I should say. Thank you, Universe, for backing me up!
I march out of the office with news of the two articles that were waiting for me this morning. “I am not alone,” I repeat to him with conviction.
“That’s nice, honey.” He’s clearly made peace with having a crazy girlfriend.
And I’m gearing up for making peace with having a 30 year old boyfriend in my last years of life. Maybe he could have an accent, too. Olive skin. Gorgeous smile. (We’ll see who has the last laugh, Mr. Smart Guy.)
Just to nail this vibration down, I’m thinking about turning 27 this year. I’ve turned 27 a couple of times now, and have enjoyed it every time. It’s a good year. I thought about earlier twenties, but they seemed a little shallow. 30’s seemed a little heavier. So I’m going with carefree, optimistic, fabulously healthy and fit, got-my-whole-life-ahead-of-me 27.
I really really like my girlfriend’s girlfriend who doesn’t know how old she is (really, she doesn’t know! She doesn’t keep track!), and my former coach who would flat out lie (and feel great about it) when someone asked her age. I’m letting go of what it “means” to age as well. It doesn’t mean anything; it’s not who I am; and I just get better with every day that passes.
That’s what I’m manifesting with the law of attraction. That’s my story and I’m stickin’ to it. Because I know it’s possible. And I pick it. Period.
Yes, it might feel like a stretch today, but as I spend more time with it, and more time with articles and people lined up with it, it’ll become more and more mine. Watch me go!
PS – here’s a link to those two articles I mentioned. We’re SO turning the “rules” upside down!