Marrying Up the Vibes
There are some things we know just don’t go together, right? Like fire and water. Love and fear. Democrats and Republicans. (ha!)
Yet sometimes what we KNOW is exactly what limits us from experiencing what we WANT.
Which is a good time to recognize when we’re buying into a limiting belief that doesn’t serve us.
Of course, I’m talking about myself again. (I’d rahter tell clients’ stories, but that confidentiality thing makes me reveal my own hand instead. tsk)
The other day I realized that while I want business to (continue to) THRIVE, I also want to RELAX more. And these two vibes – THRIVE and RELAX – didn’t seem to join up together too well in my head. There was something inside telling me that if I relaxed, my ambitious business goals would suffer. Like, if I slowed down, so would my career success.
That surprised me since in the past I’ve deliberately combined goofing off and making money. But for some reason, Thriving and Relaxing seemed to not fit together.
Which shows me where my opportunity is.
Because if I believe those two things don’t go together, that’s the way it is (for me). I’d have to choose one or the other. Which is NOT the mark of a deliberate creator! Deliberate creators know we can have whatever we dare imagine!
So all I have to do is resolve this incongruency in my belief system, and then I get to have my cake and eat it too.
Relax AND Thrive … relaxing and thriving … I’ve been trying those two on for size lately and seeing how well they complement each other.
Makes perfect sense when I think about it, since a thriving business would feel good, and relaxing also feels good – so really, they’re vibrational cousins, these Relax and Thrive energies.
What would that look like, relaxing and thriving? It would look like good things happening with the business even though I’m not – and this is easy to see now – ESPECIALLY because I’m not “worrying” over it night and day. The more relaxed I am, the more opportunities I see, inspiration I feel, the better energy I flow … the better business gets.
Of COURSE they go hand in hand, now that I think about it differently. The more I relax, the more my business thrives. And as I think, so shall it be.
So while I’m getting the hang of this, I’m really curious about what you might be holding yourself back from …
What would you combine if you could have your cake and eat it too? Maybe … long term relationship and a red hot sex life? Oreos and a healthy trim body? Corporate employment and nourishment for your soul? Divorce and a happy relationship?
I’d love to hear what you’re combining that others might not think is the natural way of things. It’ll not only help the rest of us see the limits we’ve unconsciously bought into, but also reinforce your liberation from old limits too. 🙂