Q&A: Can I Really Have What I Want (My Husband Back)?
Oh boy, everyone – it’s official:
YOU ARE IN HIGH DEMAND!
Since the last Q&A post on getting a relationship where you responded with amazingly insightful, wise and compassionate support, I’ve been inundated with others wanting you to answer their questions as well!
Are you up for it again?! I hope so!
This one comes from Tracy, who I fell in love with the first time I read her short note asking if she could ask a question. She’s not just a sweetheart through and through, she’s also a law of attraction savvy creator who asks a (couple of) common and important manifesting questions.
Using the Law of Attraction you can be, do or have anything you want; and I believe that. But I have a few questions. Here’s a little background.
What I want is for my husband to love me again. We’ve been together 23 years, 2 kids. Last August he told me he didn’t love me anymore. I know I manifested this situation—I was totally out of alignment for about 6 months due to sickness and I was surrounded by 7 couples who were ending their marriage or at least thinking about it. I spoke with these people all the time and talked about it with my husband. So I know how I got to this place. But I thought Abraham said that if we manifest something we don’t want we can undo it. However, I’ve also heard them say (and others) that you can’t make someone feel something they don’t want to feel; that the Law of Attraction only works on yourself.
For the last 8 months I’ve been believing, expecting and visualizing that we’re together, very happy and in love. I’ve been doing the 68 seconds, and the positive aspects and the affirmations. And I must be in alignment because the overwhelming feeling of joy I feel during these times is something I’ve never felt before, it’s incredible and wonderful. I can feel this way for days and days at a time. But nothing. And I’m not asking for him to instantly love me again, I’d be good with him just liking me for now. I know there is no time limit that you can put on something that you want. But Abraham says that once you’re in alignment with yourself and what you desire (which I believe I am because I can’t imagine feeling any better than what I feel right now. It’s an incredible natural high) that these things will start to rush in.
I don’t know what to do, I’m afraid to give up because it could be right there just about ready to manifest but at what point do I know that wanting this is not serving me? But what I want feels right and I’m so grateful for the pure state of joy I feel about everything in my life.
So here are my questions:
1. Can the Universe, Source or God override what you are wanting? That they decide what is in your best interest, and how would you know?
2. When do you know to let go of what you’re wanting?
3. Explain alignment. How long do you have to be in alignment for something to happen? And when you aren’t in alignment, how far does it set you back, is it like starting over? And does my husband need to be in alignment for this is to happen?
Any guidance would be greatly appreciated.
Okay, Good Vibe Community … let’s hear your input for Tracy! What words of wisdom, experiences or resources do you have to share?
Thanks in advance, and I’ll see you in the comments!