Q&A: How to Believe a Relationship Will Happen?
Fellow creators, I get excellent questions every day that I know this amazingly wise, insightful, experienced and generous community would be happy to answer. When this one came from Melissa I felt inspired to connect her with you here.
(In fact, if this goes as I suspect, I’d like to have this Q&A be an occasional feature on the blog. I’ll post your burning law of attraction questions – that many of us have grappled with at some point in time – and we support our fellow manifestors by pitching in with answers, insights, experiences, support, resources, etc.)
The question that inspired this came in last week from a regular reader who is struggling with relationships. I knew immediately this group would be excellent at providing support and insights, so I’m officially tapping into our collective wisdom.
Here’s the gist of the note:
How can you believe or be positive about something that hasn’t manifested before and which you really really want – like a boyfriend? I’ve wanted someone for years and none of the guys on offer have been what I want. It’s hard not to think that all the good ones are taken. How do you build up confidence when you’ve never been successful (i.e. never had a relationship because the guys you like are either taken or not interested)?
So my question is how do you raise your vibration if you have never been successful and have not even one positive reference point? Most books write about previous relationships and focusing on what you liked about them so what do you do if you have had n0 relationships? How can you not focus on lack and an empty hole?
How can you BELIEVE that something positive will happen if you have had nothing but failures?
Okay, Good Vibe Community … consider yourself officially recruited for this group Q&A project.
Let’s hear your input for dear Melissa! What words of wisdom, experiences or resources do you have to share? (I’ll post a response in the comments as well.)