Sending Mixed Messages?
Enjoy this insightful guest post from law of attraction coach Sharon Ballantine on the misaligned signals we sometimes send:
You might have thought that the Universal Law of Attraction stated that whatever you thought about, you would automatically get.
So you know what you want. You think about it a lot, but you still aren’t getting it. So what’s wrong?
Does it mean that the Law of Attraction doesn’t work?
First, you know that LOA does work. It has to; it is a natural law.
Just like the Law of Gravity, it works all the time – whether we are aware of it or not.
But you are thinking about what you desire all the time, so why isn’t it coming your way?
For example, let’s say you want a big promotion. You are excited about the possibility. You visualize yourself in the corner office. In your mind, you’re already spending the raise you’ll get with the new job. At the same time, you fear the responsibility. You wonder if you really are the right choice. You’re concerned that you might get the job and fail at it.
As long as you have these conflicting thoughts and feelings, then you’re sending mixed messages to the Universe. How is it supposed to know what to bring into your life? Your out-bound energies are mixed, thus making the results you receive will also be mixed.
You might be in the running for the position, but don’t make the final cut. Or maybe you do get the promotion, but it isn’t everything you had hoped for. You don’t enjoy the job, the raise was next to nothing, or worse, your net income is reduced because you have to buy a new wardrobe.
People frequently send mixed messages when it comes to their personal relationships. They say they want a romantic partner and that they are ready to be seriously involved. They may even write down lists of the characteristics that their ideal partner will have.
While all of this is great, if you don’t feel lovable, then you will never attract your ideal partner. Your strongest, most dominant energy will be that you are not lovable and no one will ever love you, so no one will.
Maybe you will attract someone who appears great on the surface, but who will only serve to reinforce your feelings that you are not lovable. Perhaps they come into your life, but are not attracted to you romantically. Or you do get involved, but they are abusive or they leave you.
If you notice that you are not getting what you want in life, especially if you think you have been really applying the Law of Attraction to get it, it is time to really take a closer look at all the messages you’re sending to the Universe.
To get what you want, the first thing you have to do is clean up your signal. Tune in that dial. Make your messages consistent. Then the Universe will get your messages loud and clear and you will get the results that you are looking for.
To learn more about Sharon’s work, visit www.SharonBallantine.com.