Untying Knots for Successful Manifesting
Anyone who’s ever struggled with a string of tangled Christmas lights or a mess of chains in the jewelry box knows from experience that we don’t untie knots by pulling on loose ends.
(Not saying we’ve never done that, but we know how ineffective it is!)
It’s the same with creating what we want in life.
We don’t get where we want to be by producing more tension.
The same way tugging and pulling on the ends doesn’t untie a knot, neither does:
- Working harder to get clients for your business when you’re nervous about not getting clients. Operating from fear or desperation just makes it worse.
- Arguing with a sweetheart when you want a better relationship. We want things to improve, but raised voices and angry gestures don’t usually facilitate that.
- Beating up your body to get a body you love. Unreasonably restrictive diets and exhaustive workout sessions just adds tension (i.e. “resistance”).
Your manifesting efforts will be more effective when you translate and implement some of your knot releasing skills.
For example, when I’ve got a knot I look for a key thread that’s keeping things stuck so I can create some slack there. Sometimes I push the ends IN, even though that might seem contradictory for unraveling the whole thing. Sometimes I take a break to give my frustration a chance to dissipate.
You can approach deliberate creation the same way you untie tangled up knots.
So how do you untie a knot? Experiment with applying your process for untangling things to your deliberate creation practice.
It’s also worth remembering the magic of knots … sometimes one little loop released in the right direction unwinds messes miraculously!