When In Doubt, Get Lined Up
Sometimes when we have a big decision to make we approach it like a muggle instead of bringing our creative powers to bear.
Like when we wonder to quit this job or stick it out. We might weigh the pros and cons of giving up the time invested in the company to take a gamble on something new.
Or when we lose sleep debating whether to give the relationship a second chance or cut loose now. We try to figure out whether we can make it work with this partner or whether there’s someone easier to enjoy.
Or when we can’t decide whether to have the surgery or try to resolve the health issue without medical intervention.
It’s easy (and all too common) to get caught up in thinking there’s a right and wrong choice that we need to suss out in order to ensure our happiness. Even among savvy creators.
But that’s a muggle way of thinking that comes from ignoring the vibrational nature of our world.
Conscious creators know it isn’t about choosing the best action – it’s about finding a better vibration.
Muggles think it’s the action that determines the outcome. We know it’s the energy behind the action.
Abraham reminds us that it doesn’t matter what we do; it only matters how we feel.
Which means that when we have a big decision to make and aren’t sure which way to go, the first thing to “do” is find the feeling first.
Specifically, find the feeling of what we want first.
What does success feel like? Try that on for size.
Or remind yourself how happiness feels. How does satisfaction and well-being go again? Conjure it up vibrationally and then you’ll be well-positioned to make a successful choice.
Because here’s the deal …
If you’re making a decision from dissatisfaction, your choice is likely going to bring more of the same.
So if you’re in an unhappy marriage and wondering whether a new partner is the way to go, you don’t actually know the answer until you know the vibration of what you want.
If you’re in an exhausting line of work that makes you fantasize about an easier livelihood, you can’t tell whether you’ll find relief somewhere else until you adopt the feeling or relief first.
If you’re hating what’s happening with your body, and contemplating a new diet or training routine – you won’t make your best decision from that place of dissatisfaction. You’ll make better choices for yourself when you find the vibration of satisfaction first.
And yes, sometimes doing anything different is what breaks the evil spell by giving us a reason to believe something different could happen. Sometimes that works.
But savvy creators know that our best path to happily ever after becomes crystal clear obvious to us when we get happy first. Just practice a little alignment before you weigh your options.
So before you toss a coin or lose any more sleep wondering about the right thing to do, practice feeling your success first and then see how different paths feel. Once you get lined up, the best choices reveal themselves like a red carpet rolled out taking us straight to dreams come true.
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